Barbie芭比
外观
芭比(英语:Barbie)是2023年上映的美国喜剧片,以美泰旗下玩具產品芭比娃娃为原型,由葛莉塔·葛薇导演,玛格特·罗比和瑞恩·高斯林主演。
语录
[编辑]- 当女人简直是不可能的事情。我们必须时刻做到无可挑剔,可事与愿违,总是一错再错。你必须要瘦,但是不能太瘦,必须要说自己是为了健康,所以不得不逼自己瘦。你得有钱,但是不能张口要钱,因为那很俗。你要往上爬,但不能靠手段。你要有领导能力,但不是压制别人的想法。你必须喜欢当妈妈,但不能整天把孩子挂在嘴上。你要有自己的事业,但也得把身边的人照顾得无微不至。如果男人干了荒唐事,就是女人的问题,这很离谱,可如果你把它说出来,大家就会骂你是怨妇。你要为男人打扮自己,但不能过度,否则就让男人有非分之想,让其他女人有危机感,因为要想维系闺蜜圈情谊,就不能过于突出。你必须懂得感恩,但是别忘了体制是受操控的,你要想办法接受,同时还要心怀感激。你永远不能变老,永远不能失态,永远不能炫耀,永远不能自私,永远不能消沉,不能失败,不能胆怯,永远不能离经叛道,这太困难了,处处都是矛盾。而且,绝对不会有人奖励你或感谢你。到了最后,你不但做错了所有事,而且所有的错都怪在你头上。我已经看惯了自己和其他女性把自己给束缚起来,觉得这样做就能让大家喜欢上我们。如果这些话对一个代表女性的娃娃来说都是如此,那我就不知道说什么了。
- 原文:It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful and so smart... and it kills me that you don't think you're good enough. Like, we always have to be extraordinary, but somehow we're always doing it wrong. We have to be thin, but not too thin and you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also, you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass. You gotta be a boss, but you can't be mean. You have to lead, but you can't squash other people's ideas. You’re supposed to love being a mother, but you don't talk about your kids all the time. You have to be a career woman but also always be looking out for other people. You have to answer for men's bad behavior, which is insane, but if you point that out, you're accused of complaining. You're supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them too much or that you threaten other women because you're supposed to be a part of the sisterhood. But always stand out and always be very grateful, but never forget the system is rigged, so find a way to acknowledge that but also always be grateful. You have to never get old, never be rude, never show off, never be selfish, never fall down, never fail, never show fear, never get out of line. It's too hard! It's too contradictory and nobody gives you a medal or says thank you! And it turns out in fact that not only are you doing everything wrong, but also everything is your fault. I'm just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us. And if all of that is also true for a doll just representing women, then I don't even know.
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