Barbie芭比
外觀
芭比(英語:Barbie)是2023年上映的美國喜劇片,以美泰旗下玩具產品芭比娃娃為原型,由葛莉塔·葛薇導演,瑪格特·羅比和瑞恩·高斯林主演。
語錄
[編輯]- 當女人簡直是不可能的事情。我們必須時刻做到無可挑剔,可事與願違,總是一錯再錯。你必須要瘦,但是不能太瘦,必須要說自己是為了健康,所以不得不逼自己瘦。你得有錢,但是不能張口要錢,因為那很俗。你要往上爬,但不能靠手段。你要有領導能力,但不是壓制別人的想法。你必須喜歡當媽媽,但不能整天把孩子掛在嘴上。你要有自己的事業,但也得把身邊的人照顧得無微不至。如果男人幹了荒唐事,就是女人的問題,這很離譜,可如果你把它說出來,大家就會罵你是怨婦。你要為男人打扮自己,但不能過度,否則就讓男人有非分之想,讓其他女人有危機感,因為要想維繫閨蜜圈情誼,就不能過於突出。你必須懂得感恩,但是別忘了體制是受操控的,你要想辦法接受,同時還要心懷感激。你永遠不能變老,永遠不能失態,永遠不能炫耀,永遠不能自私,永遠不能消沉,不能失敗,不能膽怯,永遠不能離經叛道,這太困難了,處處都是矛盾。而且,絕對不會有人獎勵你或感謝你。到了最後,你不但做錯了所有事,而且所有的錯都怪在你頭上。我已經看慣了自己和其他女性把自己給束縛起來,覺得這樣做就能讓大家喜歡上我們。如果這些話對一個代表女性的娃娃來說都是如此,那我就不知道說什麼了。
- 原文:It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful and so smart... and it kills me that you don't think you're good enough. Like, we always have to be extraordinary, but somehow we're always doing it wrong. We have to be thin, but not too thin and you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also, you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass. You gotta be a boss, but you can't be mean. You have to lead, but you can't squash other people's ideas. You’re supposed to love being a mother, but you don't talk about your kids all the time. You have to be a career woman but also always be looking out for other people. You have to answer for men's bad behavior, which is insane, but if you point that out, you're accused of complaining. You're supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them too much or that you threaten other women because you're supposed to be a part of the sisterhood. But always stand out and always be very grateful, but never forget the system is rigged, so find a way to acknowledge that but also always be grateful. You have to never get old, never be rude, never show off, never be selfish, never fall down, never fail, never show fear, never get out of line. It's too hard! It's too contradictory and nobody gives you a medal or says thank you! And it turns out in fact that not only are you doing everything wrong, but also everything is your fault. I'm just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us. And if all of that is also true for a doll just representing women, then I don't even know.
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